Timing |
Task
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12-18 Months |
- Announce your engagement.
- Discuss the framework/style for a celebration that suits your families & budget.
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10-15 Months |
- Research providers for the key services you will need, such as venues, musicians, caterers, florists, photographer and/or videographer.
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8-14 Months |
- Secure providers of the key services you will need such as: wedding consultant, venues, musicians, caterers, florists, photographer and videographer.
Almost all will require non-refundable deposits.
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6-10 Months |
- Select and order bridal gown, bridesmaids’ dresses and accessories.
- Arrange for out-of-town guest accommodations.
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4-8 Months |
- Develop a guest list with current addresses.
- Design and order invitations and thank you notes.
- Consider decorations, reception favors, napkins, and menus with caterers.
- Select music and flowers.
- Consider transportation needs for out-of-town guests.
- Plan rehearsal dinner.
- Plan new home & complete bridal registry.
- Plan honeymoon.
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3-6 Months |
- Select and order: reception favors, napkins, guest book, menus, decorations, religious accessories, and transportation needs.
- Select and order wedding rings.
- Select and order mother’s dresses.
- Research legal requirements for marriage where your ceremony will take place.
- Obtain any immunizations you will need for the honeymoon.
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2-4 Months |
- Address and mail invitations.
- Arrange for final fittings for all wedding apparel.
- Develop a coordinated timetable for your reception that includes formalities, musicians and food service.
- Arrange for a “hotel” welcome for out-of-town guests that could include itinerary, directions, brochure of things to do, and treats.
- Write vows and create wedding program.
- Determine gifts for attendants, parents, each other.
- Book hairstylist, makeup artist, manicurist and go for a trial run.
- Arrange formal wear for men.
- Arrange to get marriage license.
- Take wedding portrait and place wedding announcement in local paper.
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3-8 weeks |
- Reconfirm all service providers and honeymoon plans.
- Call guests who have not responded and develop a seating plan.
- Change name and/or beneficiary on all legal documents.
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7-21 days |
- Confirm final guest count with caterer.
- Adjust seating arrangements as necessary.
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2-6 days |
- Pack an “emergency kit” for your wedding day. Consider including thread & needle, refresher for make-up, hairbrush, stockings, etc.
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